I’m sorry I have not been able to reply to some of your post. But I have been very pressed for time lately.
Britney has what looks like more injuries on her. She has what looks like a burn, or abrasion over her right eye extending to her right ear. She has had a lot of injuries on her lately.
I don’t know what med’s she is being given. But you have to really watch people very carefully when they are on any strong medications. Those medications make people extremely vulnerable to injury. And not as able to protect them-self. These drugs inhibit the bodies normal protective mechanisms.
Also many of those med’s cause sensitivity to light (photo-phobia). And can make you more susceptible to light, and sun injury. Also to hot, and cold. You have to be careful about her getting too hot, or cold.
Britney is such a pretty woman. She needs to be careful with her skin.
I’m glad she is getting to see her boys more. They need that. And she needs that. And I am glad someone is finally doing something about her outrageous legal fees, and finances.
Clearly she was being taken advantage of. Hopefully her financial interest are being protected, and managed well now.
Well this is all I can say for now. I’m still very pressed for time.
I just checked in to see how you are doing, love and affection.
Sending you the love and affection also. You seem such a kind caring person. I hope the light of easter brightness comes your way, and past hurts can be transformed into the ongoing love that you obviously give out in your life.
Yep you are right about the bump over the eye area, as i saw a video where her security appeared to have his hand to push her through the crowd, and it appears he forgot to give her a moment to duck her head under a bar near their heads, and he seemed to push her straight into the bar. He appeared to do this completely accidentally, so you are right, People need to be warned to be a bit more gentle and caring with people who are on meds. But also with people doing any counselling to resolve things. i noticed when i face past hurts i have to be extra careful to focus and earth.
Another thing is that things like walking and dancing can earth us. I heard Britney keeps doing a pile of housework and rearranging things at home to keep busy. i do think she is trying her best to keep it together in a tough situation.
I wonder if she has given up smoking, as i do not see her with any cigarette packet pictures. Not that i know if she smoked. But one time after my darling brother was close to killing himself, i started to smoke. a couple of years later i lost a job and i sat at home feeling the pain that my brother could not make it through our childhood traumas. i decided even though the world seemed dark that week to cut the ciggies out, and cry out the pain and stop repressing it. i decided to be brave to live and be the survivor i wanted to be.
i have to say how great it felt when i stopped the cigarettes.
I started to repress with massive junk food a couple of years ago, after years of eating healthy, and yes it turned out another pile of stuff needed to be released. i let myself remember old memories, cry and shout things out and stop repressing it with junk food. While i might have the odd cake i am not needing to placate the pain so much now.
I do think healing is an ongoing thing. When people have a divorce or a job loss or whatever, quite often there are some hurts triggered that go back to earlier times.
When i am releasing deep hurts my skin often breaks out in my childhood stress ezema or some such symptoms. Humans are vulnerable creatures.
So as much as i am not liking to see Britneys face and body puffed up from what looks like major meds, not so much that i mind temporary puff, but it just looks like the amount she is being given must be a high dose.
However i am still hopeful that there is some good family therapy, good meals, smoke free environment, and some support from the therapists that her family should support her in seeing the children and standing up to the people who were ripping her off. I really hope she has got someone ethical to help her release some of the awful pain of divorce and to find trust. I do think even if she had to pay kfed lawyer millions, that to have her family stand up with her to support her in it not being right for him to do this, would be healing.
It is like when some people have a marriage breakdown, they do not want their mum saying, “i told you so, you idiot for not doing the pre nup” you hope your mum would say, what can we do to help and support you through this tough time.
we all do want to be loved.
I heard That kfed lawyer Kaplan was trying to find out information about whether she likes to be naked at home, in order to take the babies off her on things like this. Imagine having some dirty lawyer guy asking about just when you got naked and stuff like that. All my friends go naked at home sometimes if it is warm enough. And everyone i know who has babies gets naked with the baby, holding them close at night skin to skin, or in the bath together. It is recommended by good parenting books.
Britney does not always wear much on her video clips or her club endorsement work and Kaplan tried to make out if she wants to be the sexy woman wearing few clothes she has no right to be a mother.
then he held out his hand to be paid the money she earnt from doing the video clips and nightclub endorsements.
I wonder if Britney had not been a musketeer, if she would have been hounded by middle america for finally rebelling and having a hot man and a bit of time off from her work schedule.
It is interesting that some other female child stars have been known to take massive drugs, but due to them being anorexic and still looking like children, those stars are in the little girls magazines as role models. Because outwardly they keep looking like they are asexual due to anorexia, they are not media attacked in the same way Britney was.
And people like whitney houston do not lose custody of their child, or have people feel other than sorry for her during her crack years. But she was not a child star, or expected to be a role model for young girls.
There is a time when the pressure of being that good little hard working girl ends and you want to say, no i am a sexual and whole woman. the more it was repressed that you are not allowed a boyfriend unless married, cos you are a role model, then a person who breaks out might just say, ok then i might just marry for a night and then annul, my manager mother cannot deny me a night with my old child hood sweetheart just because i am a role model.
every person needs to have a point where they try out some relationships or ideas for themselves, and to make some mistakes, have some success and learn and grow.
The more they tried to cage Britney in, the more she said she would be free. And even when that Kaplan tried to break her spirit with his demand to invade her whole life, which due to him asking for no confidentiality of the court docs, then to have the information of just when she gets naked, and hypotthetically to get her to say things like why she cried or got drunk when she found out kfed got on with her best friend or whatever. Those types of heavy duty invasive questions seemed to be designed to break her spirit,
She wisely avoided most of the kaplan inquisition, and waits for some fair resolution.
People tried to make out she was too busy partying to attend Kaplans inquisitions, but Britney is actually a very smart person, and she knew when the dice was so loaded she could only wait for some other way to emerge.
i think she did a great job on keeping her spirit alive in such tough times, and if she got even a bit of support from her family on standing up to people who have their agendas, then that must help. Basically i imagine even if the lawyers fighting Kaplans payment meant a bigger bill in the end, i do think it becomes a matter of having a sense of pride that you are not ripped off without a fight.
So if her family stand up for her on some things now, i think that might really help the healing.
She loves to be free like the wind, and her smile can light up a thousand universes. But she has every right to cry and grieve and release her pains, just like all of us do.
I was a young mum, and single, and i went out to listen to music at a venue about once a month. and all my neighbours told their children to stay away from my child as they said i was a prostitute due to gentleman callers. i did have 3 brothers and 5 male cousins who called past at times to interact with some cubby house building and stuff with my son, but in my neighbours minds it must be bad stuff going on. the headmaster at my school told the teachers that he did not know how a good kid had such a terrible mother. i did not drink, or do drugs, i worked long hours to pay the bills, my home was tidy, but because i was very slim in slim line jeans and fitted tshirts, normal fashion for a 22yr old, people made up a life of their own imagination about how bad i was. Married men would often ask me things about when i got naked and other weird things from their own disturbed heads, and so i feel sorry for Britney if she had to put up with Kaplan’s disrespect. Some people hate a woman for having a carreer and children and they hate them if they live on welfare and have children. Basically society often does just hate young single mothers.
My friends waited for the perfect relationship and a good man to marry, but then they all found out it was too late to have kids, or in one case the man they married lied about wanting kids, and then told her he had changed his mind. She is the type to not leave a marriage. Another woman found out the guy was gay after the marriage, and again she will not leave a marriage.
I do think society or middle america needs to stop blaming hte woman if the marriage does not work out. They say silly her marrying young, silly her waiting till the right guy comes along and then too late for kids, silly her for never finding a guy to marry her, or silly her that he has affairs with her friends. they say oh she had a carreer that is why, oh she was stay at home and let herself go, that is the reason.
I believe it is not wrong to end a bad relationship and to be allowed respect for being a single mother or father. So i can see a lot of hate that some people feel about a public figure out having fun when divorcing, is based on some deep repressed hate of women. it was often the womens magazines that layed into a divorcing woman and tried to spread lies and controversy. Were they drawing on a collective thing in women where women have been taught to self hate that they are nothing without a married situation.
Well Britney is stepping out there and shining, meds or not. She is a light that shines so bright.
She is free in her heart, and soul, and i love it that she would not stay in a bad marriage, and also that she loved so much she had no prenup. She is a woman of courage and love, and i think that is one reason so many love her, or are amazed by her.
Holly,
See my post “An Answer For Holly, and Britney”.